There’s a wonderful piece by Paul Wiecek in the Freep today
about the seeming legions of Jennifer Jones haters. For some reason, Jones has
become Enemy No. 1 with many curling fans who show their displeasure by booing
her, posting harsh comments in places such as Curlingzone.com and lashing out
notes on newspaper web sites.
For the life of me, I’ve never understood this.
Yes, Jones along with Dawn Askin and Jill Officer (It wasn’t
JUST Jones who made this decision) decided to part ways with Cathy Overton-Clapham after a successful season.
They had an eye on the future and decided on this move.
In any other sport, this would have been an accepted as part
of the business. You make changes in hopes of getting better (hence the rabid
appeal on days such as today, Trade Deadline Day). They aren’t always popular
but they are done. But in curling, for some reason, everyone is expected to
play nice. It doesn’t matter if you lose, win or tie – you just stay with the
team.
That doesn’t mean that Cathy O doesn’t have a right to be
upset or hold a grudge – it’s easy to see her side of things – or that folks
can’t like and dislike whomever they want. It’s just that to put a black hat on
Jones and continually stab her, to me, just doesn’t make sense. If the Cathy O
dumping is the only reason people dislike Jones, isn’t it time to get over it?
Jones is an immensely private person but I got to know her well
during the 2010 Olympics when she sat beside me on the media bench. She was
working for Yahoo.ca and spending 13 days and 14 hours a day beside someone
gives you some insight into their make up.
Last year, in preparation for the Scotties, I did a lengthy
interview with her and shortly after that, she called me and asked if there was
one topic we discussed in passing that could be left out of the story.
Because
it wasn’t really relevant to anything I was writing about, I agreed. During the
course of the week at the Scotties, she thanked me and confided in me several
times about a few things, and I came to see how tough it was for her to be on
the receiving end of the harsh comments and the boos that rained down at the
Charlottetown Civic Centre, especially during the game against Manitoba and in
the final.
If this was a professional team and you’d paid good money to
come and see it play (i.e. the Leafs or Habs), then boo all you want. But these
people are just regular folks who work jobs and curl for fun and a little bit
of spending money.
And really. . . booing in curling?
This year, although I wasn’t there, it seems some took
delight in watching the Jones team crumble
Jones, to me, is an exceptional individual, someone who has
managed to combine a career with curling. Not many people – male or female –
have done that at the level she’s at career-wise. She also does a lot to give
back to the sport, hosting clinics, signing autographs, talking with young
players.
Perhaps this is the price that has to be paid for curling
moving into bigger arenas and the athletes becoming bigger celebrities. I just
have a hard time understanding people’s rationale for this harsh and
mean-spirited action against someone as talented and good-natured as ones.
Well Bob..suck it up.. many many people will NEVER get back on Jones bandwagon. For a trained Lawyer she should have learned by 37 yrs old how to communicate with others and in particular her team mates she still has NOT learned by the fact she was unable build up Kaitlyn's broken confidence at this year's Scotties. The other thing is that Jones kept pretending that all was well and that she was Cathy's friend..she should have had balls and some Human compassion for firing a "friend" like that and could easily have privately talked to her..she didnt and will NEVER get people back on her side..she sure has you wound around her finger!
ReplyDeleteI have the utmost respect for the Jennifer Jones team as curlers. I won;t pretend to know them as people and cannot comment on their treatment of their former third. What I can say is I will cheer against them for their involvement with Monsanto as a sponsor. The CCA obviously is also in bed with Monsanto. Curlers, do your research about this dangerous company. Yes we need sponsors, but there is no dirtier money than Monsanto money.
ReplyDeletePS ..Bob.. what is extra infuriating is the fact that you , who is supposedly so Pro-curling..is posting this Column right after Team Alberta just won the Canadian title.
ReplyDeleteWhy arent you writing about this instead of this Boooing issue a YEAR after it happened in PEI?
Nobody, not even you using your journalistic privilege will ever change people's Minds about Jennifer Jones.
Get your head out of your Arse about issues that true curling people dont even want to discuss anymore
Watch some really great Curling being hosted by Canada in Lethbridge..maybe then your column might just be worth reading!
Well Bob, I seem to recall some less than flattering words written by you concerning JJ and company in the past.
ReplyDeleteTo paraphrase a recent post, you guys in the media like fanning the flames but when the fire gets out of control you are suddenly shocked and appalled.
Excellent piece Bob...
ReplyDeleteIt's too bad a select handful of so-called curling fans choose to resort to personal attacks and disrespect to Jen and her team for something they know absolutely nothing about. I agree it's their own choice to like or dislike Jen and team, however, it is absolutely disgusting and shameful in the manner they do it. Jen is and has been the greatest ambassador for this sport and deserves nothing short of complete respect for what she has done. She is an athlete and is passionate about her sport. On top of that, she dedicates unbelievable amounts of her own time to women's curling and its future prospects - the kids.
So to those of you who *think* you have the right to attack the character of the members of this team or any other team for making decisions with the big picture in mind, give your heads a shake. You do NOT have that right - nobody does. Agree or disagree with what the team has done but leave the personal trash out. It has no place here. Stop running this sport into the ground because that is exactly what you are doing. You make it impossible for teams to make competitive decisions. Keep it up and eventually this cometitive sport will turn into nothing more than beer league hockey.
she should use blush for 'her makeup'
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